I told of a dinner at a fancy restaurant that I went to with my family and grandparents in the Kenyon Inn. I remember staring at the menu and not knowing how to pronounce half of the words and ingredients. I just pointed to the chicken dinner I wanted when the waitor came around to get our order. He prounounced the two words as he wrote them down and I swore he wasn't speaking a real language. The waitor brought out a platter of side salads for all of us and I felt like a rabbit, eating all of these crisp, bright green vegetables. Our conversation banter quickly came to an end as we saw our food being brought out on beautifully white plates. Immediately I noticed how small the portion of food was and started planning out what I was going to eat when we got home. We all began eating and everyone exclaimed how theirs was the best, even though mine of course was the most delicious. I forced myself to eat slow, savoring each bite and to participate in the dinner conversation with my grandparents. Although I had self-prepared to be hungry after finishing my plate, surprisingly I was quite full. He told of a dinner that was a typical Monday night, "Pasta Monday". His mom made a pasta dinner every Monday. He told about the three ingredients to his mother's delicioius dish. Specifically she used linguini noodles and a certain pasta sauce. He spoke of this ritual every Monday very fondly. He asked me questions to see if I knew what kind of pasta he was referring to. So that I could recall and know what tastes he was talking about.


Writing is a form of expression that can be strict or lenient. Rules and certain structure can be followed or a writer can ignore all of these and completely make it up. Sometimes while writing for someone else, say a boss or a teacher, it may feel like you're writing with a very large pen. One that you cannot manage perfectly to create your own writing. Instead it is so very large that it hinders how you really wish to write. You are writing yes, but this very large pen is encasing your own preferably small pen and forcing you to follow certain guidelines.